So apparently people actually read my blog...who knew? Thanks to those who read! Feel free to comment :)
I haven't been able to post lately unfortunately due to the fact that school has now started with full force AND I'm working approximately 20 hours a week.
And honestly, I have wanted to write, but I've had so many thoughts jumbled up in my head I've had a bit of writers block! Where to begin it all?
I've recently been reminded of the negative effects of partying.
First of all, when people party, they think they are the COOLEST thing in the face of the planet. What they don't realize, is that when all they want to talk about is partying, that it's REALLY annoying to both guys and girls.
Girls. Guys really don't think it's all that attractive that you go out and party every weekend. In fact, most guys that I've talked to say that it's getting old. Really fast. So my advice? If you party, that's fine, but maybe keep it to yourself. Or text your BFF about it.
I would talk about guys and partying but guys don't really talk about how much they party so there really isn't anything to talk about :)
Moving right along.
I'm really tired of narcissistic people (really glad I have spell check!).
Everybody's different, everybody has their issues. But don't think that your issues are more important than mine. To you they might be, but at least show a tad bit of sympathy. And don't think you're better than me because your issues are SO much tougher to go through than mine and I don't deserve to even be talking to you because my status is CLEARLY lower than yours. People that are like this make me frustrated. It's one thing to have a good self esteem, but it's entirely another however, to think that you're better than everyone. That is so not good. Have a slice of humble pie please!
I think people that are narcissistic really need God to give them a good kick in the pants just to bring them back down to earth, or shrink their head sizes. Whatever works. I don't think there's a single person in the world who has the right to act like they're better than everyone. In my opinion, an attitude like that will get you nowhere. No one will want to work for you, be friends with you, and in both of those cases, do anything for you.
So my advice to narcissistic people? Pull your head out of your butt, find some sympathy, and enjoy a piece of humble pie. You're a great person, but so am I. And so is your neighbor. And that really annoying neighbor with the yappy dog? Yeah. Them too. As Proverbs 11:2 says, "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." Be proud of who you are, but also be humble in the fact that you aren't perfect and nobody is. Everybody has their issues, and if you can take a step back and at least acknowledge the other person, you might be better for it. You might actually learn something from somebody. Who knew?
And that's only part of it. Possibly more to come soon!
ah maze ing!
ReplyDeletemy fave post of yours to date!
keep on writing girl, you have a gift from God.
xxx
peace&love!
Awe thank you! That means a lot! :)
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